10.3 angel Kyodo Williams’s working definition of love
The way that I think of love most often these days is that love is space.
Say some more about that. What do you mean?
It is developing our own capacity for spaciousness within ourselves to allow others to be as they are. That is love. And that doesn't mean that we don't have hopes or wishes that things are changed or shifted, but that to come from a place of love is to be in acceptance of what is, even in the face of moving toward something that is more whole, more just, more spacious for all of us. It's bigness. It's allowance. It's flexibility.
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